Not much was actually wrong with Wondery’s Something Was Wrong podcast. I binged Season 1 in 2 days.
I’ve gotten onto this bandwagon pretty late as well. It first dropped in 2019. This is the case with all my podcasts, as I have to (unimaginatively) google up “best podcasts to listen to”. I really need more recommendations.
It’s sick that a very Christian girl’s narrow escape from an emotionally abusive relationship with a psychopath she met on a dating app was 6 hours of entertainment to me but there we are. We all have guilty pleasures.
So these were the 2 things that didn’t feel quite right.
They play this weird background music loop that seriously evokes the feeling of someone being manipulated really often. At first I was like “This is amazing. So creative. Such a good way to build the tension!” but now I am just like “No! No! No! Not again!” when the loop starts playing. Especially cause they play it when they read almost every question during the Q&A episode.
I was also kinda disturbed by how often Sara’s parents kept saying it was OK for them to meet their own daughter one-on-one without the psycho because they weren’t married yet?! After they got married, there’d be some covenant, and Sara’s parents expressed that they would only have met them as a couple. So, if the psycho had better pacing, and only showed his nastiness after marriage as opposed to after engagement, Sara’s parents would not have been able to save her.
I just finished S*** Town by Serial productions and was as intrigued by it as I was in 2016 when I listened to Season 1 of Serial.
When I first listened to S*** Town awhile back, I lost interest at the very beginning as it was so different from Serial. How silly of me, and how glad I am that I gave it a second try.
One of my superpowers is my extreme negativity. My mind often goes from sweet innocent topics like puppies to institutionalised racism in nanoseconds. So listening to John’s frequent negative rants about living in S*** Town Alabama sounded eerily familiar to me.
John ended up pushing so many people away because of his negativity. I say s*** about life here too and that’s not what I want. Even more so, my kids also love repeating the things I say nowadays and I do not want them echoing me in this way.
I do feel the things I say about where I am are logically and rationally truths. Being the chatterbox I am, I find it hard to keep these things to myself.
John could have moved away was something one of the closest friends he lost said. Whilst that is true for me too, I actually think that moving away is not something I need to do.
I wasted a few years of my secondary school life wallowing in misery because I returned from the UK. I emerged from that with a very clear understanding that happiness follows me, where I am, where I go. Happiness is not buried treasure, it is not marked with an X on a pirate’s map.
One of John’s tattoos read “each wounds, the last kills” and it refers to moments of time. Such a smart riddle but I’m not going to subscribe to that view. Each is in fact a gift.
Like many, I’ve been bingeing Stranger Things. The best thing about Season 4 is that J finally watched it with me. Of course, he got hooked. So when I rewatched Seasons 1 to 3 during the month long break before Season 4: Volume 2, Jason watched Season 3 with me too.
I didn’t like Season 2 very much the first time I saw it. Especially the 11-centric episode. Kali? Nope. Lost Boys references? Nope.
Rewatching Season 2, I realized I was nitpicking. It wasn’t half as bad as I remembered. In fact, there were so many nods in Season 4 to previous seasons that it was fun spotting all the Easter eggs.
Season 3 remains my favourite season though. Who doesn’t like bright neon colours and Terminator references?
Back when Season 3 was released, I also discovered a hilarious after show podcast called Streaming Things which has excellent hosts with the kind of humour I appreciate. One of them does a killer Dr Brenner impression which makes me snort laugh out loud every time.
I decided to write them an email of my Season 5 predictions and was super happy last night when my email was chosen for their mailbag episode! Hahaha… I totally prefer their counter-predictions to mine because theirs is a lot more positive and I’m all for happy endings.
When I watched Mulan as a kid, I remember a particular lyric of the song, Matchmaker striking a real chord in me. My mom regularly nagged me to 快手快脚, and here was Disney declaring
Men want girls with good taste
Calm
Obedient
Who work fast-paced
With good breeding
And a tiny waist
You’ll bring honor to us all
The virtue of being efficient suddenly seemed unquestionably true. So I’m always trying to complete tasks as fast as I can. I take pleasure not only in doing something right, but doing it fast too. I’m pretty sure that this mantra of mine has not helped my blood pressure readings and is why I’ve been on medication for 5 years.
The latest toll for my dumb quest to work fast paced is that I slammed the car door on my own thumb. Just because I saw that a water bottle had been left on one of the kid’s bikes overnight as I was exiting the car. So I wanted to get to it as fast as I could to wash it up.
The pain was insane! It happened in the morning but my thumb was still throbbing at night. I had to go to the clinic to get painkillers.
I don’t even know why I felt that I needed to rush. Really need to work on just slowing down.
I found Slate’s Slow Burn and listened to 3 seasons – Biggie and Tupac, Clinton and Watergate. All these major historical events that I know of but knew nothing much of.
As a kid, I had created my own account of what these events were all about and never bothered to get a fuller picture.
New York/California rappers/gangsters shot each other. Puff Daddy will see the fat one that died when he gets there. The End.
US president cheats on wife with Monica Lewinsky and a stained dress proved it. The End.
Top US classified information was stolen from some kinda military base near a water dam (thus Watergate, duh) and Nixon was the bad guy. The End.
All 3 seasons were so good! Told in an interesting way and thought provoking.
I also finished Sweet Bobby. Catfishing that lasted 8 years? The perpetrator is indisputably repugnant but it’s still really hard not to victim blame. Why isn’t there an insistence to turn on the camera, ever etc.
My Year in MENSA was also hilarious. Elitism mixed with Alt+R political incorrectness, plus Facebook. Cocktail for comedy. I never knew Mensa is what Spanish speaking folks call idiotic or stupid women. Haha.
During the Covid lockdown, we adopted Loki. Loki is a pomapoo. It was August 2020, and he was 8 months old at the time. J was overjoyed. It had been J’s dream to have a dog for many years, albeit a more “manly” one.
Loki is an absolute soft toy come to life. He can be noisy (will bark at cats, bigger dogs, and anyone or anything that passes our home) and cheeky (will climb onto our sofa when we aren’t home) but it really felt like Loki was always meant to be part of our family. I love our little cuddle sessions.
Anyway, Loki was part of a litter of 3 male puppies. Leo, Loki’s Pomeranian father, was just 7 months old when he impregnated Mimi, a Poodle, with (fun fact) just 1 testicle. Last of the lot, Loki gave Mimi a hard time and couldn’t be birthed naturally. Fortunately for us, the vet thought Loki was a female puppy and for that reason alone, Loki’s ex-owners decided to fork out for a c-section.
At 8 months, 5 dogs was more than Loki’s ex-owners could handle and he was offered to us for adoption. J and I have had many many quarrels over Loki cause J really spoils Loki and I get super jealous and irritated.
Tortious act
A few months ago, Loki’s ex-owners asked us if we would be open to adopting Loofie as well.
They wanted Leo’s bloodline to continue and decided to buy an all white female Pomeranian to breed with Leo. At the pet store, they came across an adorable brown and black Pomeranian with heart problems and ending up buying her as well. Again, they found themselves with 6 dogs and needed to give one up.
They didn’t want Loofie to be totally alone in the world and thought reuniting Loofie with Loki would cushion things for Loofie.
J was alright with the idea but I straight up declined cause it’s another household expense and tried to convince J’s sister to adopt Luffy. I was already imagining all the play dates Loki and Loofie could have. Alas, her future condo doesn’t allow pets.
J and I then offered Loofie to another family that we knew love dogs (so that Loki and Loofie might have play dates still). After I made the offer, I realised that I wanted Loofie myself. I couldn’t sleep cause I kept thinking they’d accept. So before they accepted, I deleted my messages to them and told Loki’s ex-owners that we’d take Loofie.
Aftermath
Loofie has been with us for 15 days. It was really challenging. He had diarrhoea for 4 days due to antihistamines. He’s only used to pooping indoors. At the worst, Jason had to get up 3 times at night to clean up his poop in our bedroom. We forgot about dog grills that we could use to make Loofie poop on pee pads only. Using that now, thank God.
Poor Loki was so used to being the only pooch in the house. Loki hasn’t had any peace since Loofie came. Loofie shadows and bugs Loki to no end.
Loofie is so different from Loki. Kinda gross actually, haha. He burps and farts. He does this thing where his face looks just like Snoop Dogg and we call him that quite often. I was thinking of switching his name to Snoopy but J rejected the idea.
Luckily, Loofie is still adorable in a goofy way and hopefully his fur will grow out soon!
Once again, the last few weeks have passed by in a whirl.
Felix and Alexis took part in their first swim meet two weeks ago. It was very ambitious of us because they had only attended seven or eight classes before the Swimin12 Sports Day. Alexis was very insistent that she want to take part because she wanted to get a medal. Fortunately, the little miss got what she wanted and went home with a silver medal.
Our silver medalist and consolation prize winner 😂
I also took Felix and Alexis ice skating at 163 Mont Kiara. It’s a tiny ice skating rink but really fun since it’s not so crowded. Skates there are still very new. The ones at Sunway Pyramid were vile. I paid RM5 for newer ones at Sunway Pyramid but the pair they gave Alexis looked pretty worn in, and when we swapped that pair for the older ones instead, she got a blister that burst in 20 minutes.
Can’t wait to go again.
Alexis is flaunting her new bob in the pictures. Really Jason’s child, can’t stop looking at her reflection and loving her new hair.
We watched The Batman last Thursday and I just loved it.
Even though the screen was black most of the time (a pet peeve), I just loved the detective vibe of the whole show. Robert Pattinson is also the Batman that all women deserve in return for all the unsought action films we put up with for our other halves. Gorgeous.
I’m also watching Euphoria and this series is just… crazy. There’s so much to process each episode. I’m glad it isn’t just the pure emo, we want to cut or kill ourselves teen trope that I thought it might be.
I was also rabidly listening, reading and watching all the Elizabeth Holmes, Theranos stuff.
Apart from all the media content I’ve been consuming, I’ve been feeling very content. It doesn’t feel appropriate considering all the Russia-Ukraine madness but in my own little world, I have been doing alright.
J and I solved our decade long plumbing woes and showers in our house are finally hotel level epic. I had been nagging J to install an instant water heater in place of the concealed rain shower we have in the guest bathroom but he decided to get a proper plumber to diagnose the issues we’ve been having instead.
Turned out our water pump was leaking, our existing storage water heater was too small and its motherboard gone, our water pipes were of random dimensions and sometimes not connected to the water pump when it should be.
The final magic touch was simply swapping the shower handle for a high pressure shower handle from Shopee! These babies seriously work. RM18 and it’s like a urine trickle to Niagara Falls. Haha.
Since Valentine’s Day fell on a Monday this year, J and I decided to celebrate on Saturday. With kids, schooling, Loki etc. it’s just easier.
Early
LaLaport is yet another behemoth of a Malaysian shopping mall built on what was Pudu Jail (I do not have plans on going or staying there after dark 😅 Lord forbid I should see hanging corpses like in Sixth Sense).
We packed them off to their grandparents for a sleepover and headed to LaLaport before dining at Skillet at 163.
If nothing, we can be proud of the architectural beauties we have in Malaysia. It’s obvious we don’t have the population or spending power to justify so many of these new shopping malls. Yet, Lalaport is gorgeous.
We got some bits and bobs at Nitori, the so-called Japanese Ikea. Nitori’s electronic and sleep sections really remind me of Harvey Norman, and the household section had many Ikea reminiscent items but it really doesn’t deserve to be called the Japanese Ikea. 😂
Definitely returning to visit Rollerwa and Coo & Riku with the kids. I took Felix and Alexis to Rollerwa in 1U and they absolutely loved it and have been asking to go again.
Wheely love these 2.
We also spotted a cotton candy stall that sells huge ones shaped like giant Hello Kitty heads or unicorns, and I just need to fulfil that dream for Alexis (read:me). Haha.
Our meal was lovely. Can’t go wrong with foie gras, wagyu and champagne. Haha.
We take our steaks seriously. Haha.
What went very wrong were pictures of me in my full Ursula glory. I very much need to lose weight. As opposed to being in a mental state where my weight doesn’t matter to me, I want to be in a physical state where my weight doesn’t matter to me. I want to be in photos with Jason and the kids without my dramatic “Woe is me, I’m fat” breakdowns.
Actual
Valentine’s Day was in fact a bloody affair thus the blog title. Unbeknownst to us, Alexis was allergic to her temporary studs. Both her ear piercings got infected after a week of wearing. There was pus, dried blood, and when I tried to clean the piercings last night, there was screaming, crying. Bad mom guilt struck hard again.
We took her to the doctor for peace of mind. She got antibiotics, a good cream, and meds for the pain and itch. Hope it will all be over soon without her losing the piercings.
Thanks to the pandemic, I hadn’t seen my sister and her family for almost 2 years. So it was wonderful to have her back in Malaysia for 3 weeks in December. Thus the total blogging absence or so the dilettante desperately tries to justify. Haha.
One of the many highlights of her visit was our stay at Sekeping Serendah and day trip to The Sticks!
We stopped to have the giant prawns at Yew Li Restaurant in Serendah before checking in to Sekeping. So glad we made the stop! Just have to ask for their signature style.
Sekeping itself was just gorgeous, but as luck would have it, there was a wedding at the Orang Asli village, so we e had to put up with quite a bit of Mat Rock karaoke. We still enjoyed our 打老虎 barbecue. It was so convenient to just tear open the pre-marinated meats on sticks and plonk them on the grill. The coal was masterfully set up by the Sekeping Caretaker but he never returned with a pair of kitchen scissors he promised. The best set was the Korean one for sure.
The Sticks was also lovely as anticipated but it was really busy and one of their staff members started to ask us if they could clean the huts at about 5? Considering the day trip period ends at 6:30, they really shouldn’t have at all. Marred the experience. They also didn’t serve us keropok lekor for tea like the last visit, so we were served just banana pisang and French toast. Since the latter is far far tastier than the former, there was simply not enough French toast to go around. When we asked for more French toast, the staff made another 2 slices, so 4 more triangles. 😂 Ridiculous.
Anyway, before I knew it, the 2 weeks with us were over. My sister’s family is back in Singapore. Can’t wait for the next meet up. Fingers crossed for Club Med Bali in September! Haha.
